FORGET THE BAD. CHERISH THE GOOD
What a crazy night I had last night!!!
First Me, Honey, Maal and Benny headed to the beach for some fun time. Sea breeze, sand between your toes while you're high on wine is just the absolute combination for a total chill time. Not to mention having ur Giggly GF(Maal) on your side makes it all more fun! We were just laughing and falling all over(not like we needed wine for that la...Cuz we are generally high on life..nyehehhhe).
Secondly, after our wine fiesta! We headed to MOIS- while high on wine- STRAIGHT to the dance floor! We danced the night away! EPIC! I have not had so much fun!!!!
But, between this Party and happiness. We both had come to a complete understanding on what friends are and what we meant to them. After wine, before MOIS, in an instant, we lost 2 friends due to what...even I don't know. All I know is, I don't know them at all, and neither do they know us. It was sad but rather the disappointment consumed us. I wished I'd realize this sooner, then I would have not wasted all the precious time i'd had with'em.
In all my years, let me tell what friends DON'T DO:
1) They don't abandon you
2) They are not embarrassed by you
3) The do not have double-standards towards you
4) They do not trip you, but rather they should catch your fall
5) They sdo not just laugh with you and but cry with you as well
6) They do not LIE to you.
7) They do not cause you PAIN!
So, what does not break me, makes me stronger. Thinking about this whole situation does make me laugh a lil. It is all stupid really. Silly. Oh well, not everyone has a high enough mental capacity to realize the stupidity of their actions. Can't expect everyone to think maturely now, can we? Looks like...for some, the older you grow, the quicker your brain cells diminish. Hehehehe.
Hmmm...so...what have I learned from this.
I will still choose to love rather than to hate. To hate takes up so much of my energy, it is just not worth it. It is much easier to love those that deserve it, and ignore those that do not. DO NOT HATE!!! It consumes you.
I will not give up in the human spirit. I will still give everyone I meet the benefit of the doubt. I will not judge them for I have been judged all my life. I still believe in kidness and loyalty.
I have not and will not compromise my principles in life. Never have and NEVER WILL. If I do, I'd go againts every fibre i'm made of, I'd shatter me.
I believe actions speak louder than words. Seeing is believing anyway.
Life is a bitter sweet symphony :) I'm curious to know how my story will turn out. And that is why...LIFE IS JUST AWESOME.
